we are studying how to get and stay focused on

we are studying how to get and stay focused on what we really want. We may say we know want we want but then don’t always behave in a manner that is consistent with that desire. In order to get want we really want it’s important to learn HOW to dialogue. We need to start with our own hearts. The authors state “If you can’t get yourself right, you’ll have a hard time getting dialogue right.” For this discussion share what the expression ‘work on me first’ means to you? Why is it important? What ‘dialogue killers’ have you been witness to or used yourself? Give examples.