John,’ age 7, (who is the ‘identified patient’), was referred to you by his pediatrician. ?The ‘identified patient’ presented with behavioral problems – specificall

John," age 7, (who is the "identified patient"), was referred to you by his pediatrician.  The "identified patient" presented with behavioral problems – specifically acting in an overly aggressive manner at school and "clinging" to his mother while at home.  Mom (Jennifer, age 38)  states that the only time he is not being a problem is "when he is sleeping."  Mother reports that she is a "stay at home mom," not particularly happy in her marriage – since her "husband  (Bob age 39) works all the time" as the general manager of a car dealership, owned by her father. 
She reports unplanned weight gain, fatigue, disinterest,  and a lack of sexual interest.  She fears her husband may be having an affair with his secretary.  What is your assessment and how might you proceed in helping John?