Post a cohesive response based on your analysis of the Learning Resources and your professional experience. Be sure to discus
Post a cohesive response based on your analysis of the Learning Resources and your professional experience. Be sure to discuss the following:
* No plagiarism
* APA citing
Discussion – Week 2
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Discussion: Tangible Versus Intangible Conflict Issues
In this Discussion, you are asked to identify a conflict situation about which you feel strongly. It may be a workplace conflict or a personal conflict at home or at school. The conflict may be interpersonal or between two different groups, but not more. Some examples of workplace conflicts might be whether you or a colleague will lead a project team when you were simply told to work together, or a clash over roles and responsibilities that have some overlap. Work conflicts may be over pay disparities, opportunities to be more visible, or unfair performance reviews, to name a few. Make sure that the conflict is about a content issue, not based on personality differences.
Documenting the details through writing them down and analyzing the conflict situation you identified will provide you an opportunity to put into practice the Stop – Think, Listen and Communicate (S-TLC) espoused in the textbook readings this week. As you plan what you want to communicate, keep in mind the basic communication rights and practice them with others, even as you would like for them to be practiced with you. Look also for the emotional content of the others involved in your conflict and identify opportunities to empathize with them. When people feel heard and understood, they are much more likely to be open to exploring options. These tactics create a safe space for learning, exploration, and change.
Cahn, D. D., & Abigail, R. A. (2014). Managing conflict through communication (5th ed.). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education.
To prepare for this Discussion, pay particular attention to the following Learning Resources:
Review this week’s Learning Resources, especially:
. Five Stages of Conflict – https://dougnoll.posthaven.com/the-five-stages-of-conflict-escalation
. Furlong, G. T. (2005). The conflict resolution toolbox: Models and maps for analyzing, diagnosing, and resolving conflict. Mississauga, Ontario: John Wiley & Sons Canada.
2. Chapter 8, “Model #5: The Dynamics of Trust” See attachment
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Assignment:
Post a cohesive response based on your analysis of the Learning Resources and your professional experience. Be sure to discuss the following:
· Describe the conflict scenario you identified based on your preparation for this discussion, identifying the players, the core issue and the goal of the conflict—instrumental, relational, identity, or process, from each perspective. Select a conflict in which you have engaged or in which you intend to engage. (Note – you should not disclose names of individuals in a manner that would make their identities known to your classmates).
· Specify which of the core conflict issues you identified are tangible and which are intangible.
. See Tangible and Intangible chart
· Using The conflict resolution toolbox Learning Resource, apply the Dynamics of Trust model to the perspectives of both parties.
· Using the charts associated with each model below, select the appropriate model to describe your conflict and fill out the attached chart.
. If you have already engaged in the conflict, use the functional cycle or dysfunctional cycle based on Figure 2.1 or Figure 2.2 within the Managing Conflict Through Communication text to describe your conflict
1. See The Competitive Conflict Escalation Cycle Chart
1. See The Passive–Aggressive Communication Cycle Chart
. If you are still in the planning stage of conflict, use the Six-Step Confrontation Process within the Managing Conflict Through Communication text to describe your conflict
2. See The Six-Step Confrontation Process Chart – http://www.free-management-ebooks.com/news/six-step-problem-solving-model/
· Which communication strategy best fits this conflict? Explain why you chose this one.
· 3 -4 paragraphs
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WORKPLACE CONFLICT AND HOW BUSINESSES CAN
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In our culture, we reflexively tend to think of the term “conflict” in the negative.
When we discuss conflict in the business world, we speak of it (often unwittingly)
as a diminishing force on productivity, an ill that only compounds the difficulties of
a job, and an element that needs expunging if companies are to achieve their goals.
Normally seen as the byproduct of a “squeaky wheel” rather than a natural derivative
of business itself, conflict is a force that causes short-term anxieties, and many view
“fixing” ongoing conflict as synonymous with “eliminating” it.
CPP, Inc. commissioned this research in partnership with OPP, Ltd. in Europe and Fellipelli in Brazil, to shed light on the nature of workplace conflict – defined for the purposes of this study as any workplace disagreement that disrupts the flow of work. Studying workers in nine countries, our goal was to examine how different cultures view conflict; the ways they react to it, its short- and long-term impact on individual and company performance; and what (if any) correlations can be drawn between reactions and results both positive and negative.
The study confirmed our long-held assertion that the aforementioned perceptions of conflict can be too dog- matic and that understanding conflict requires a more nuanced approach. Indeed, ineffectively managed con- flict is costing businesses millions of dollars per year. Yet conflict has a bounty of positive potential, which if harnessed correctly, can stimulate progress in ways harmony often cannot. Ultimately, we found it would be prudent for members of the workforce to rethink conflict’s role in the workplace and the many assumptions made pertaining to it.
WORKPLACE CONFLICT AND HOW BUSINESSES CAN HARNESS IT TO THRIVE
FOREWORD by Jeff Hayes, CEO, CPP, Inc.
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First and foremost, workers at all levels must learn to accept conflict as an inevitable part of their work environment – the study found that an overwhelming majority (85%) of employees at all levels experience conflict to some degree. Furthermore, we found that U.S. employees spend 2.8 hours per week dealing with conflict, equating to approximately $359 billion in paid hours in 2008.1 The question for management, there- fore, is not whether it can be avoided or mitigated; the real concern is how conflict is dealt with. If managed improperly, businesses’ productivity, operational effectiveness, and morale take a major hit, as evidenced in our finding that 27 percent of employees have witnessed conflict morph into a personal attack, while 25 per- cent say that the avoidance of conflict resulted in sickness or absence from work.
On the other hand, when channeled through the right tools and expertise, conflict can lead to positive out- comes, such as a better understanding of others, improved solutions to problems or challenges, and major innovation. Roughly three quarters of workers reported positive outcomes that resulted from conflict – results that in all likelihood would not have been produced if conflict was not initiated.
For more than five decades, CPP has consulted with companies of all sizes and in all industries. Our experience concurs with the results of this study, which show that the most common denominator to successful conflict resolution is formal training. Countries like the US and Brazil, who report the highest levels of conflict manage- ment training, also observe the highest amount of positive outcomes from conflict. Conversely, countries that report the lowest levels of training report the lowest amount of positive outcomes. We have found, further- more, that training is most effective when it includes the use of psychometric instruments and an increased understanding of personality – the number one cause of workplace conflict.
Despite this, however, our most striking – and alarming – finding was that the majority of employees have never received conflict management training. Furthermore, our concern is magnified by the discovery that stress and workload – two factors certain to increase in a dynamic economy – are the second and third most common causes of conflict. Companies, therefore, that choose to ignore conflict management are risking exposure to a myriad of negative consequences which may dramatically diminish bottom-line performance. On the other hand, organizations that implement effective strategies for dealing with conflict will position themselves for tremendous gains in the years to come.
1 Based on average hourly earnings of $17.95, seasonally adjusted, non-farm workers. Bureau of Labor Statistics, May 2008.
THE RESEARCH
This research project was carried out in May 2008 and analyzed workers’ attitudes about conflict. It questioned 5,000 full-time employees in nine countries around Europe and the Americas: Belgium, Brazil, Denmark, France, Germany, Ireland, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom and the United States. CPP commissioned this research in partnership with OPP1 in Europe and Fellipelli2 in Brazil.
1 OPP, Ltd. One of Europe’s leading business psychology firms. 2 Fellipelli. One of South America’s leading business psychology firms.
Our study found that the majority of employees (85%) have to deal with conflict to some degree and 29% do so “always” or “frequently.” In Germany this latter figure jumps to 56%, while employees in Ireland (37%) and the US (36%) also spend a significant amount of time managing disputes.
The level at which most conflict is observed is between entry-level/front-line roles (cited by 34% of respondents), but conflict also exists at the most senior levels: one in eight employees (12%) say that disagreements among their senior team are frequent or continual.
The primary causes of workplace conflict are seen as personality clashes and warring egos (49%), followed by stress (34%) and heavy workloads (33%). Culture also plays a part in the perception of causes: as Brazilian workers are more likely to see a clash of values as a major cause of conflict (24%). In France, 36% of employees saw a lack of honesty as a key factor, compared with a global average of 26%.
Unsurprisingly, poorly managed conflicts have a cost attached to them: the average employee spends 2.1 hours a week dealing with conflict. For the US alone, that translates to 385 million working days spent every year as a result of con- flict in the workplace. One in six (16%) say a recent dispute escalated in duration and/or intensity, only 11% of those surveyed have never experienced a disagreement that escalated.
Various negative outcomes arise from conflicts. 27% of employees have seen conflict lead to personal attacks, and 25% have seen it result in sickness or absence. Indeed, nearly one in ten (9%) even saw it lead to a project failure. 41% of employees think older people handle conflict most effectively, so life experience evidently helps people become more effective. The skill of leaders in this regard is the key determinant, however. Seven out of ten employees (70%) see managing conflict as a “very” or “critically” important leadership skill, while 54% of employees think managers could handle disputes better by addressing underlying tensions before things go wrong.
However, there is an evident discrepancy between how well managers think they handle conflict and how well they actually do: a third of managers (31%) think they handle disagreements well, but only 22% of non-managers agree. Furthermore, nearly half of non-managers (43%) think their bosses don’t deal with conflict as well as they should, compared to only 23% of managers who share this view.
Training is the biggest driver for high-quality outcomes from conflict. Less than half (44%) of all those questioned have received training in how to manage workplace conflict. This figure rises to 57% in the US and 60% in Brazil. Moreover, 72% of Belgian workers and 73% of those in France have had none.
Where training does exist, it adds value: over 95% of people receiving training as part of leadership devel- opment or on formal external courses say that it helped them in some way. A quarter (27%) say it made them more comfortable and confident in managing disputes and 58% of those who have been trained say they now look for win–win outcomes from conflict.
EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
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Most people work in relatively incestuous industries and even if you ultimately leave a job as a result of failure to resolve an issue, it’s unlikely your reputation won’t at some point follow you into the next organization. If you’ve ever broken something of value, remind yourself how you felt when you awoke next morning – and avoid repeating that same mistake.
5 Know what you don’t like about yourself, early on in your career
We often don’t like in others what causes us discomfort in ourselves, so self-awareness is a key asset for a lifetime of effective conflict management. Completing a psychometric inventory5 and receiving feedback from a trained profes- sional is a great way to accomplish this, and is something you can revisit in many situations, throughout your career. Write down five traits that rattle you when see them in others, and be aware that these are trigger points for you.
Other forms of “transference” include becoming energized about an issue because a separate irritating event has oc- curred and you have not yet processed it properly, or because it reignites destructive feelings from the past. It’s pos- sible, also, that at the root of your frustration with an individual now is the fact that they remind you of someone else with whom you’re already angry. In relationships where egos routinely clash, certain reactions can become habitual and take over even before you are aware of them.
So, take time to ask yourself why this issue is so important to you and whether the emotions you’re feeling are truly appropriate to this particular, present situation. If all else fails, ask another person to mediate – preferably someone who’s trained and impartial.
5 The TKI instrument – great for identifying your preferred conflict handling style and for learning alternative techniques.
The FIRO-B® instrument – great for revealing discrepancies between what people want versus what they ask for.
The MBTI® instrument – great for appreciating individual differences and working with them.
Win–win is the ideal solution to any problem, and this approach can therefore be seen as a great goal: allow- ing both you and the others involved to meet your needs. Nonetheless, there are drawbacks: like all teamwork, collaboration relies upon trust and communication. Moving to collaboration without having this base will be very difficult. A second drawback is that collaboration takes longer. Those who rely on this approach will find that even small decisions can take a long time, although in the long term working with someone that you trust becomes quicker and more efficient.
COLLABORATION
85% of people change the way they approach conflict over the course of their working lives; they become more proac- tive and take it less personally as a result of experience.
Among all employees, 76% have seen conflict lead to a positive outcome, such as better understanding of others (41%) or a better solution to a workplace problem (29%). This figure rises to 81% and 84% in the US and Brazil, respectively – the countries where training is most common. Belgium and France, where employees experience the least training, also have the lowest incidence of positive outcomes. This shows a clear link between training in conflict management and conflict’s impact as a catalyst for positive change.
Our study demonstrates that destructive conflict is not something organizations anywhere should accept as an inevitable feature of working life. If organizations invest in building the awareness of self and others on which better relationships depend, they will see the energy created by interpersonal friction generate sparks of creativity, rather than consuming flames. HR, leaders, and employees must all accept their responsibility for becoming competent conflict managers.
COSTS TO THE ORGANIZATION
Time is Money. There are a variety of direct costs to the organization associated with poorly managed conflict, includ- ing, in the worst cases, the loss of customers and good employees. One that is visible to everyone is the time taken to successfully resolve issues. Time that would be better spent on accomplishing work and achieving goals is instead used to manage disagreements and smooth ruffled feathers, although where the outcome is wholly positive this might be seen as an investment.
Our survey found that, on average, each employee spends 2.1 hours every week – approximately one day a month – dealing with conflict in some way (being involved in a disagreement, managing a conflict between co-workers, etc).
For the US alone, that translates to 385 million working days spent every year as a result of conflict in the workplace. In Germany and Ireland, where the average time spent managing conflict rises to 3.3 hours per week, that figure is an even higher proportion of available working time.
In some organizations, the situation is worse still: one in ten respondents say they spend six hours a week or more dealing with conflict. It is also a major drain on the resources of HR departments: half of the HR workers questioned (51%) spend between one and five hours a week managing disagreements.
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TOP TIPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND LEADERS
1 Recognize that one size does not fit all
Using the same approach to conflict in every situation will not get you the best results; different circumstances warrant dif- ferent approaches, and the law of diminishing returns applies. It’s important to weigh the best outcome you might achieve against the time needed to get you there. Does the disagreement really merit the work involved in collaboration?
While a “win–win” approach might eventually ensure you’re both happy with where you end up, some issues may be better and more quickly addressed through your offering concessions, agreeing to compromise – or simply avoiding disagreement entirely. You will almost certainly have a preferred style of handling conflict, to which you will default. The trick is to identify this, and question whether it best suits the situation as you approach each issue.
2 Seek to understand underlying emotions
We have a mental habit of assuming that we do good things because we are trying to be good and do bad things be- cause situations left us no choice. However, when it comes to others, we tend to assume that they do good things as a consequence of the situation, and do bad things because of who they really are. So it’s essential to dig beneath the surface of the position the other party is taking to get to their genuine concern and their needs.
What you see in your “opponent” may not be a true representation of how they are actually feeling inside. You can’t ex- pect to penetrate their psyche, particularly when you may already be at loggerheads, but you can offer them the chance to see beyond your own surface impression, and the chances they may reciprocate are good. Many skilled negotiators share thoughts and rationale, but most warring parties forget even to do this much.
But there’s more. Explaining your feelings may be difficult, but can create the kind of breakthroughs that strengthen relationships in the long term. So take time to spell out your personal needs from the situation and the emotional impact it has on you. Use “I” statements, and don’t attribute blame. Invite the other party to do the same. Worse case, you’ll have raised the quality of the dialogue to a level of honesty that takes much of the heat out of the situation.
3 Don’t be seduced by “competitive arousal”
This is a term coined by Deepak Malhotra of Harvard Business School, and it describes vividly a state in which the desire to “win at any cost” dominates. As Malhotra suggests: “When we see our [adversaries] not just as opponents but as en- emies, we often lose sight of our real objective. A new objective emerges: to beat the other side, whatever the cost.” 4
This kind of interpersonal rivalry can set whole teams at war with one another. It’s seductive because it creates a certain energy (the term “arousal” is not used lightly), and can provide a rallying call for team togetherness. So avoid dismiss- ing your partner-in-conflict (e.g. as “incompetent”) or undermining them to your team, and try and recall the strengths you’ve noted in them in the past. As Malhotra advises: “If the perception of rivalry is too much to bear, consider bringing in someone else from your team to take over the discussion. [A resolution can only be reached by someone] who can evaluate the situation more objectively, and is not overcome by rivalry-fuelled competitive arousal.”
4 Life goes on tomorrow…and reputations last for ever
Burning bridges is never, ever, a good thing. While the satisfaction of unloading all your feelings may be immense in the short term, there are unimagined ways in which your words can come back to haunt you. It is wise, in the heat of conflict, to try and give yourself time to gather self-control, even if this means venting with someone you trust, finding your own space for a while, or “sleeping on it.” Often the publicity a major conflict can generate creates a communal suspense, and it’s easy to find the spotlight that an argument casts attractive. Be drawn by these at your peril.
4 Negotiation Genius: How to Overcome Obstacles and Achieve Brilliant Results at the Bargaining Table and Beyond, Deepak Malhotra and Max Bazerman, Bantam 2008
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Prolonging the agony. It is not unusual for conflicts to escalate, rather than being swiftly resolved. Nine out of ten employees (89%) have experienced a workplace conflict that escalated. Almost one in three (29%) said that a recent workplace conflict took a few days to properly dispel, but as many as one in six (16%) report that a recent conflict remains unresolved, having lasted longer than expected and/or becoming increasingly intense. It’s difficult to say whether this is because the issues underlying these situations are genuinely complex, but certainly the likelihood of speedy recovery without some form of scar tissue diminishes as conflicts prolong.
The research also found that women are more likely to have been involved in a conflict that escalated (19% versus 14%). The sectors in which disagreements are most likely to become inflamed are marketing and the charity/not-for- profit sector (30% and 23% respectively).
Only one in ten employees (11%) has never experienced a conflict that grew into something bigger, which suggests that conflict management techniques are not well embedded into organizations. Of course, where escalation occurs, more management time is required to restore calm and refocus the team on its original purpose.
COSTS TO THE EMPLOYEE
Individual impact. When conflicts are not addressed effectively, emotions can run high and individuals suffer. The impact of this is more difficult to calculate but no less serious, particularly on staff engagement levels. Over a quarter of employees (27%) have been involved in a workplace disagreement that led to personal insults or attacks, while a similar percentage (25%) have seen conflict lead to sickness or absence.
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5 Ensure that everyone “owns” accountability for resolving conflict
It’s tempting to look to the manager or formal leader as being responsible for the difficulties conflict can create when poo
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